I have troubles with erection during vaginal sex, oral is ok

Question:

Hello, I am 58, my name is John. I have problems with keeping an erection during vaginal sex. I can lose it very easily – sometimes during foreplay even before the penetration. Looks like it’s kind of erectile dysfunction. That is why now I prefer oral sex with my wife. I can ejaculate during it.

I have no serious health issues and I do not take any medications.

Please, help. My wife likes vaginal sex more than oral and I have to do something to be able to perform.

Doctor’s answer:

Hello, John. Thanks for your question. It seems that you are really experiencing erectile dysfunction (male impotence). And it is likely to be of psychological nature, not physical, as you don’t have any serious health conditions. It can be due to your anxiety and fear not to be able to satisfy your wife, or due to some kind of stress or depression.

First of all I recommend you to have sexual therapy for both you and your wife in order to find out what prevents you from penetrating vaginally. You also might need some physical therapy. And you and your wife should try to change your behavior during sexual encounters – to rise the level of arousal – it can help you maintain your erection and penetrate the vagina.

Also consider some natural Viagra substitutes, such as VigaPlus or CaliPlus – they are all-natural and have no harmful side-effects. Their successful rate is very high and confirmed by thousands satisfied customers all over the world.