I can’t maintain an erection and even can’t ejaculate

Question:

Hello. My name is David, I am 35. My wife, who is 33 years old woman, insists on starting a family. I am not sure if I am ready to have a child but I think I should give a try at least. We have been married for almost eight years and our sexual life was perfect.

But recently I started noticing that I have problems with maintaining an erection. I can’ keep it for more than 7-8 minutes. And worse, sometimes I can’t ejaculate! I tell my wife that it’s because I have things under control but I think she doesn’t buy it anymore. Actually I don’t understand what is going on with me. Please, help me to get back to normal sexual life with my wife.

Doctor’s answer:

Hello, David. It seems that you have a condition called retarded ejaculation (ejaculatory incompetence) and it’s combined with erectile dysfunction. If that started happening to you when you wife told you she wants a baby – then the problems are likely to be caused by psychological issue. You are worried and not sure about having a child and it makes you lose your confidence and as a result causes ED and retarded ejaculation.

You are not the first man who has these problems under pressure. You should pay a visit to your GP and ask him to refer you to specialist to get some psychological advice. You should also check if you can keep an erection and ejaculate when you masturbate. If you can – the problem is absolutely for sure caused by your anxiety about starting a family.

Don’t worry – your condition is easily manageable and a qualified specialist will definitely help you.

If your ED has some physical factors behind it – give a try to VigaPlus, so called natural Viagra substitute. They do not need doctor’s prescription and do not cause any side effects.

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